About This Column
Welcome to the first
edition of the Royal Register! This is a probably
temporary column because I don't believe it will be a
success. But I will try anyways. Please send any
questions you might have to me at ZotPrincess@aol.com, because it is my dream to become a friend to
everyone and be as helpful as possible. I will keep all
your thoughts and questions confidential, not to worry! I
will send back advice, if I can give any, and I might
post it up here. You needn't tell me your name, just sign
it in a nickname, maybe related to your problem. I have
written two example problems so you may get an idea on
how to write yours! Enjoy!
Identity Crisis
Dear Princess,
I am having a terrible time discovering my cyber idenity.
Previously, I have been acting as the person I want to
be, instead of who I really am. In Imagine SIM, it is
harder not to reveal my true, geeky self to friends,
though I don't really like who I am. I am neither happy
with my personality or looks. Courtiers and family have
asked for my picture, and instead I sent them one of a
model. We are thinking of meeting, and I don't know what
to do! Should I tell them who I really am, or continue
acting and pretending to look like some dream woman?
Please help!
Signed,
Not-so-perfect.
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Dear Not-so-perfect,
It seems to me you have gotten yourself in an
identity crisis. There is nothing wrong with being the
person you aspire to be *personality-wise,* because that
part of you is really you if you can create it. The
internet is a whole new chance to reveal our inner selves
through words, and not to be judged by looks.
However, I would reccommend sending your family your real
picture. You could say you weren't sure you'd accept your
looks in the perhaps high-reputized virtual family. You
wouldn't want to miss meeting your cyber family in
person, as it's a fun, bonding experience. It would be a
shame to miss it because of one little lie. I hope this
helps.
Love,
Princess.
Player or Sincere?
Dear Princess,
I am writing to request your advice on a love matter. I
am fairly new at Imagine SIM, and have instantly been
excited by the prospect of medieval courting on Virtual
Places. I have seen both types of courtiers: players and
tramps, hard-to-gets and respectable lords and ladies.
At first, I tried to be fit into the sterotype of a
respectable lady. But it isn't really fun waiting for the
guy to make all the moves, when the "players"
are having all the fun, being liked and popular amongst
the other gender. Though, through the eyes of
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higher-ranked
citizens, they are not worth bothering with, as they put
a downcast on the empire's reputation as a whole. I want
to court a high-ranked officer, but they take too long to
know me before they make the first move! I want to be
courted, and be courted now, and I want it to last! Are
their any alternatives?
Sincerely,
Possible Player.Dear Possible
Player,
I know, waiting for Mr. Cyber Right can be difficult
and time-consuming. The best advice I can give you is to
be patient, and wait for that special, respectable young
lord to meet you, and request your courtship. It doesn't
have to be slow; though it is considered almost improper
to ask the lord, their are many oppurtunities to hint you
are interested! Sometimes they need a little help, being
insecure themselves! Though not seeing another's facial
reaction can make us more confident. The brief
relationships between "players" never last and
never mean anything. Though it can be fun, later they
shall want to marry and such, but their reputation for
being with every lord shall make it difficult for her. If
you see any lord or lady being disrespectful to courting
rules, such as these "players," please report
them to the council. Good luck.
Love,
Princess.
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